I am in the same boat as many of you, if I *need* something I've already bought it. If you are a family member and you need me to tell you what I like we're not really that close anyway, and a gift is not necessary.
I buy gifts for the adults, because I like to buy, not because I feel an obligation to do so. I don't feel hurt if I don't get gifts.
We are in the middle of Hannukah, and my kids have at least a gift a night from us, DH has at least 2 gifts a night (all but 2 are from me) and I had a few things. Hurts the kids feelings that I don't have a turn, but I have fun watching their reaction.
my list this year :
Convertible (preferably a little 2 seater)
a new garage
humidifiers - 3 - and filters for them!
a 30-45" HD TV with a very wide base
These are not things anyone asking for a list would pick up for me.