In my step-dad's family, there is a lot of children. what happens is each family gives ten dollars for each child to the child's parents, and the parent buys one gift with the accumulated funds. This way the kids get a good present, and it makes it easier on everyone. maybe you should suggest an idea like this
There is a house where I live where people come from all around, everything is covered with lights. My sister and I always try to figure out what is new each year.
Christmas morning, but we always got one or two on christmas eve when I was little. The two we got on Christmas Eve were usually pajamas and a Christmas book.