I usually give people a general idea when they ask. I don't give specifics. DD is into polly pockets, barbie, disney princesses, etc. So when someone asks what to get her I just tell them anything in that area. I do that for myself too. If someone asks what I need/want I just tell them I love candles, bath products, picture frames etc. That way it gives them ideas but still free to pick out what they want to get (without feeling like you are telling them) and then they know where to start. Plus if you honestly don't know the budget then you don't want to make someone feel obligated to buy out of their price range.