leefamily23 Posted November 21, 2012 Share Posted November 21, 2012 I've been BF shopping for the last 20 years in a row. I went each of those years w/ my sister. That has changed this year, she originally told me she wasn't going. (though I did read on facebook she is going, just w/ her group of girlfriends-not sure why she lied, but whatever). Anyhow, dh has decided that he would feel better if I wasn't going alone and has decided to join me. Plus BF is my birthday and he feels bad that my sister is being sneaky and ditching me on it w/o reason. That being said, dh isn't too fond of shopping to begin with. Thinks it's crazy that we ever even went out into those crowds to save a few dollars and isn't the fondest of large crowds. Though he is insisting on going with me, which I know is coming from a good place,I just am not sure. I have been trying to prep him for what we'll be dealing with. Especially at Walmarts opening. He knows what to expect w/ the parking lots and such. About 10 years ago I had him meet us at Walmarts opening because I was buying a TV and wanted him to take it right home so it didn't take up too much room. Then 2 years ago we got caught in an unexpected downpour while waiting for TRU to open and I had him bring us a change of clothing. He has never done the line waiting or managing the crowds to get the items. Anyone else ever been in this situation? He has promised me he would be calm and "just deal" with the situation---for me. Just looking for some pointers to get him through. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShopnMom Posted November 21, 2012 Share Posted November 21, 2012 Just like with kids, add his favorite snacks to your purse! They tend to get grumpy when the are getting hungry Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
happysunshine28 Posted November 21, 2012 Share Posted November 21, 2012 WOW I take DH with me too, he would rather spend more than to go. That would be ok if we were only going for 1 item. But I just tell him to suck it up its only once a year. Now I would just tell him you just do what I tell you and stay as close to me as possible or go where I direct you to go. LOL It works great for me. Plus him being with me is great for when I need him to stay with buggy, yes I do buggy when I am at walmart. You will be so glad he went with you. Its like having an assistant. 1 bad thing I have to deal with is, are you done yet? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DivaOfDeals Posted November 21, 2012 Share Posted November 21, 2012 I am also taking a first timer: my teenage daughter. She is begging to go! I don't know if she will be glad she came when she is "in the thick of it" but we shall see. I told her, if she goes she is committed. I actually think she's going to enjoy it and it's going to be a tradition. She won't like being in line, I don't either, but the thrill of meeting the challenge, scoring the deals, and shopping is worth it. I will treat her to a good hot breakfast out when we're done shopping which she will love too. We will not be splitting up at all except to use a bathroom. I would say treat your newbie to a good hot breakfast afterwards. Bring entertainment and snacks and a folding chair if you will be in line. And make sure you are both dressed warmly in layers. Hopefully the great deals and thrill of the challenge will win your newbie over! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starbeck96 Posted November 21, 2012 Share Posted November 21, 2012 Your husband sounds like mine...lol. This happened to me last year (except I always went with a friend). He went with me to Walmart and then we drove an hour and a half and waited on the next store to open. I was bored to death...lol. I love my husband and we have a good time together, but he was no fun BF shopping...lol. He hated it. He said it was his first and his last year. He is going to Walmart with me for the 8:00 sale but he doesn't mind that so much. I would definitely tell him to just stay with you. I would also take him an mp3 player or video games (whatever he likes). Take snacks and treat him to a good breakfast...lol. Make sure he dresses for the weather (if you are goin to be outside waiting). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluebear Posted November 21, 2012 Share Posted November 21, 2012 Funny, I may be dealing with the same thing! My mom and sister usually go with me, but I think that isn't happening this year due to lack of funds. I have a tiny bit to spend, so it won't be a big trip for me, but I just like to go out. And, I would be fine going alone, but everyone would freak if I did. So I know there's a good chance he will offer, but, well, same as you, he's just not a shopper. He will be occupied with his phone, but then sometimes he doesn't keep up with me when he's distracted. I am thinking about to going to the mall to go to the Microsoft Store. That mall is about an hour away. I get stressed driving in traffic, especially in unfamiliar places, but I don't mind the crowds too much. He would be okay driving, but not being in the mall. So I told him he could drive me and stay in the car! He was fine with that, so maybe we'll do that for that trip. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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