We started doing BF when we were a carefree young couple sans children Now, shopping for kids mean shopping for deals on really sought after stuff So, we eat Thanksgiving dinner at my aunts, then dessert at my MIL's, then head home to catch some sleep. My mom meets us at our house around 3 a.m. We head out, while the kids sleep in. When they wake up, she makes breakfast and lets them watch all the TV they want. Meanwhile, we shop at MUST go to places (namely TRU and Walmart), then relax with a coffee from Dunkin or Starbucks before finishing at a slower pace. We bring home lunch for Gramma and the kids.