as of right now, our dd2 and dd9 get up at different times, so the past 2 years we have been able to watch each one individually open gifts - kinda nice for the older one the first year (avoided jealousy issues). hubby and i exchange gifts at this time - makes it nice so we can focus just on each other and so that the next day is solely the girls.
night before is inlaws and hubby's grandpa (only grandparent left)- a few gifts there. come home and into bed. i lay out all of the gifts and put a few underneath their tree upstairs (small 3ft bright pink tree). these they can open as soon as they get up.
xmas morning - they have to do the stocking first. they can do this while hubby and i are waking up, getting things ready (camera, food, drink, ourselves, etc.) i am the mean wrapper who has wrapped a pencil before. my mom always individually wrapped everything (and that was with 4 kids) and i have just continued that (2 years ago i ind. wrapped a 6pk of the small pepsi cans - refuse to buy anyother time, so.... dd9 didn't find it too funny).
dd9 passes out all of the gifts and we let them dig in. i have them stop from time to time to pose w/ gifts. once those gifts are done, we give the big gift. this is the gift from hubby and i (the others are from "santa", at least when dd9 still believed adn this will stay the same for dd2). last year, a 4wheeler for dd9 and a cast iron tractor for dd2. i think so far this year dd9's gift is a pink cricket .22 gun and no clue for dd2 yet.
we then head down to inlaws to get rest of gifts, my parents come out after that for gifts and breakfast, then lunch and more gifts at my grandma's house......makes for a really crazy day, but it's fun.