well...he THINKS he knows what i spend....but take that amount and triple it and its closer to the actual figure...lol
the main factor in that is we have separate accounts. since hes the breadwinner, 98% of everythign comes from his account. so hell say, you have $300 ( or whatever figure he has in his head) . he knows perfectly well, I'll spend 50-100 MORE than what he said.
But I also have my own account, and LOVE the buy now pay later deals!
AND I tend to shop year round, at least for family members gifts.
So thats how I manage to spend so much more without him knowing about it. he just always figures my account is empty! lol