I only have one child and he usually gets everything on his christmas list plus alot more, but this year i'm going to try something different. About two months ago we were talking about christmas and he started telling me some of the things he wanted. I asked him what he wanted to give jesus for his birthday, since it is HIS birthday and not anyone elses. That really got him thinking, so he decided that instead of being selfish and just thinking about what he wanted, he was going to give jesus a present. He cut his list down considerable and now he wants to go to church on christmas as a gift to Jessus.