For the past 3 years I've added a lot of strangers to my Xmas shopping list. There is a great web based org started by an Army mom when her son was in Iraq called soldier's angels. Its motto:
May no soldier go unloved.
May no soldier walk alone.
May no soldier be forgotten,
Until they all come home.
SoldiersAngels.org
The lady that started it, Patti Bader-Smith sends me emails with the wish lists of soldiers that are likely to be forgotten at Christmas. Most ask for very simple things (last year calendars, video games and tennis shoes). I've attached a sample email below. It is a 501c3 so anything you send can be deducted. Consider adding them to your BF list. It is a great way to make your Christmas better.
Also, for those folks that are never satisfied, I have taken to sending a gift in their name and giving them a card telling tham about what I did. They'll never be happy-but with this strategy someone will!!!
Look at the web site, send Patti an email even if you can only spare $10 for a couple of doorbuster DVDs at least they'll know someone is thinking of them. As an aside, my 8 yo and 5 yo kids have really enjoyed doing some of the shopping. They know that it means a few less things for them--but they still love it.
email:
Hello Patti,
First thing I would like to say is how much I appreciate what you and your organization are doing for the troops everywhere. After talking to my guys I actually got a list out of them:-) I know they will be appreciative of anything that they receive. We would love to have Christmas lights and mini trees definitely. Those will come in handy for the Christmas Party I am planning already. My guys said the following would brighten their holidays:
mp3 players, dvds, cds, blank dvds, blank cds, ps2 games, playstation games, massaging foot tub, xbox games, any kind of snacks and candy, and two of my guys said a 2006 Harley Davidson Deuce and 3 of us said our wives:-)
I told them that the Harley would probably be too much for shipping so they might have to wait for that one and i'm not sure if my wife would want to be stuffed in a box to get mailed over:-)
Anything you and your organization can send to put a smile on their faces will make it worthwhile.
Thank you from the bottom of my heart and god bless you all,
Allen
SFC ALLEN CARTER ENGLISH
RHHT 3D ACR MOTOR SERGEANT
CAMP SYKES, IRAQ