Hello All,
My situation is kinda the same. I am the middle child and only Daughter. My older brother by 1 year is married as I am too. My mom ALWAYS seems to spend more on me than she does on my brothers. Mom doesnt spend the same on my DH as me...but close, more than she does on my SIL. My husband is always greatful, and tells her not to spend too much on him..but year after year she does. I think she puts alot of effort into it because we lost his mom in 2000 and DH was just 25 years old..So she likes to do a little extra than my SIL. Also..if mom needs any help with lifting or moving things..DH is always the first to volunteer...unlike my own brothers..sad to say. Sorry for rambling on....