Everyone should be treated the same if not when they get older to realize what is going on there will be alot of hurt feelings and anger. I had 3 children before I married my hubby we now have one of our own and my inlaws treat the baby much better than my other 3 which I think is wrong children are innocent bystandards and don't ask for any of that stuff,Iam afraid it will cause alot of problems down the road my oldest is 16 and of course she sees it it gets her very upset. My hubby loves all the kids and treats them all the same thats the way it should be as for the inlaws as far as i'm concerned they could go scratch I beleive what comes around goes around,I Love All My Kids To Pieces