What we like to do is, the girls buy a girl gift and the guys buy a guy gift. Normally something you would like for yourself. Then we put all the gifts in the middle of the room. Everyone who brought a gift gets a number. Then we go in order and we pick a gift out of the middle of the room or steal someone else's and they have to get a new gift or steal one. A gift can only be stolen 3 times and then it's dead. This can be a lot of.